I heard the phrase "Nemesis of Despair" in a song traveling early in the morning while listening to the car AM radio in one of those places where they only only play static and country western music one night years ago.  I don't know too much about country western music, but if someone out there knows of the country western song with those lyrics that I heard that night, please let me know.

Anyway, I like this tag and have adopted it as my own....  "despair" being "the complete loss or absence from hope" that seems to take us all over from time to time until we find some way to self medicate ourselves.  I'd love to be in control of when this occurs.